This book represents a ‘push-back’ against commonly held opinions. While its themes may be familiar, it challenges conventional beliefs.The title ‘One in Seven?’ is a reference to the generally accepted statistic that 1 out of every 7 cases of domestic abuse is committed against men. The ‘?’ behind the title alludes to the author’s experience and belief that this vastly understates the reality of an epidemic sweeping the nation.

It is also a table-turning story of a perverse and prejudiced system.It is a deeply personal narrative covering the tumultuous period in a man’s life when he’s the target of domestic abuse, his partner’s controlling and violent behaviour and her battle with alcoholism. In particular, it concentrates on the harrowing effect on their son, which ends in tragedy.

The book highlights the hurdles faced by a father, against violence, coercive control, lack of institutional support and the outright prejudice and hostility from the very organisations who supposedly, have a statutory duty of care. It tells of the eventual tragic loss of his son under the most extraordinary circumstances before an uplifting account of reconciliation years later.

The story is told with hopelessness and hope, desire and dread, fear and fortitude, disillusion and desolation, frustration and fury but also with humility and humour.